About Kathy Rudlin

This author has not yet filled in any details.
So far Kathy Rudlin has created 108 blog entries.

What If I Think I Might Be a Ghost Mother?

By | November 12th, 2014|Ghost Mothers|

Women who read my book sometimes see their own parenting portrayed in the descriptions. These are often mothers who didn’t realize how much being raised this way had affected them, but now see this illusive generational legacy being passed down. [...]

The Hidden Gifts of Being Raised by a Ghost Mother

By | November 5th, 2014|Ghost Mothers|

There are positive lessons to be learned from growing up this way? Gifts that I can wrap up and take with me after going through all this pain? Yes, very much so… this often over-looked aspect of growing up ghost-mothered was the [...]

How Do I Deal With Setbacks That Occur in My Healing?

By | October 29th, 2014|Ghost Mothers|

Setbacks are going to happen, whether triggered by stress, physical illness, holidays, contact with your ghost mother, painful memories, or other factors. In fact, all healing happens in erratic ways, often with progress being made, and then a period of [...]

The Power is On!

By | October 22nd, 2014|Ghost Mothers|

I’ve gotten used to my chiropractor saying the power is on when he’s finished my adjustment and is helping me up from the table. I know that he’s referring to the fact that what he does in manipulating my spine [...]

The Power in Accepting Your Ghost Mother’s Limitations

By | October 15th, 2014|Ghost Mothers|

Often there is resistance to the suggestion that it’s important to try to understand the reasons your ghost mother is emotionally unavailable. It can be even more difficult to let go of the long held hope that she is going [...]

You Can’t Lose What You Don’t Have

By | October 8th, 2014|Ghost Mothers|

An important issue that comes up is how to let go of a ghost mother, emotionally, or literally. There can be a strong sense of loss in doing so, this is a huge step, but holding on to something that [...]

The Deep Importance of Supportive Relationships

By | October 1st, 2014|Ghost Mothers|

This terrific quote (which introduces Chapter 4 in my book), is credited to Jillian Michaels, a popular personal trainer known for her appearances on reality TV shows, to include The Biggest Loser. She helps people change their physical appearance, which [...]

I’m Healing Now, So How do I Deal With My Ghost Mother?

By | September 24th, 2014|Ghost Mothers|

This is a tough one. In this regard working with a professional can be extremely useful. Together you can develop and evaluate strategies to help you deal directly with your ghost mother, and handle whatever she throws at you. Here [...]

Are You Reluctant to Read About Ghost Mothers?

By | September 17th, 2014|Ghost Mothers|

It’s true; the concept of ghost mothers can be scary… If this type of pain resonates with you, but part of you isn’t ready to explore what you’ve experienced in this regard, then I encourage you to go at your [...]

Do I Need to Worry About Being a Ghost Mother to my Children?

By | September 10th, 2014|Ghost Mothers|

It’s healthy to be proactively concerned about the possibility of taking on the illusive qualities of your mother, but this is less of a concern when you commit to dealing with these issues. The fact that you want a different [...]

Load More Posts